Thursday, December 24, 2009

LIFE OF WOMEN: FULL OF SACRIFICES IT’S TIME NOW WE MEN SHOULD REALISE IT AND PAY DOWRY IN RETURN

LIFE OF WOMEN: FULL OF SACRIFICES
IT’S TIME NOW WE MEN SHOULD REALISE IT AND PAY DOWRY IN RETURN
I was sitting in front of my laptop and chatting with a friend of mine, who studies with me in my pgdm program. Starting with some general talks we entered into a mode of serious talks, and in a student’s life serious talk is nothing but about their future plans and career plan.
She is very smart, intelligent girl with a clean soul. She was sharing her future plans, to a great surprise of mine, she was only going to work for a year or so , I was quite surprised and amazed by listening that, but after knowing the reason I was more kind of shocked, my mind was blank for few seconds .
What a tragic situation it was?
The girl who has outperformed the boys in all fields in her whole life, starting from primary schooling to graduation and even in post graduation.
Is uncertain about her career, just because it would be time for her, when marriage bells would start ringing and she needs to tie knot with someone. She does not know whether her in-laws would allow to fulfill her dreams.
It’s a true affair and unfortunate ,rather disgrace to our society ,that stops somebody from realizing their dreams ,specially for someone who has been chasing her dreams throughout her life ,working day in and day out scoring excellent marks and outperforming others at every platform.
How our society can be so ruthless!!!...... they are ruining aspirations of so many young girls, just to fulfill their desire .Suppressing dreams of millions of young women.
A famous quote of William Shakespeare very well fits here
“GLOUCESTER O ruin'd piece of nature! This great world ’’
Yes we men are ruining the greatest piece of nature, i.e., women, the life of a woman starts with sacrifice only, from sacrificing her mother’s milk (for her brother) to her education, upbringing and lately sacrificing their dreams and aspirations for the in-laws etc. These all things are brutally suppressed during the course of time. They become the victim of dowry death, molestation and other worst forms of criminalization.
Its appreciable that some changes have occured in our thought process and some girls are really fortunate that they need not sacrifice these things in their childhood or even in adolescent stage, but again the mirror maze starts for them when the time comes for performing the ritual of tying knot with someone who is a stranger for them.
We talk so big about women empowerment, talking about some handful women and boasting about their landmark achievements, not realizing that, our male dominated society never appreciates their efforts but wants to be a part of their success!
Our politicians want to pass a resolution wherein they talk of giving reservation to women, again the step lacks the motive instead it is just politically motivated, to reap benefits of governance out of it.
Women empowerment is not needed for women; rather morale empowerment is necessary for them as well as for all the men as to how to treat them and not restrict their thought process and ideas, by imposing our unauthentic and unworthy systems and beliefs.
The offensive people of our society, who seek pleasure in asking for big amount as dowry, should instead feel ashamed of doing so, instead they should give dowry to women, who sacrifice even their smallest of happiness, leaves their family, unrealized dreams and gives her entire life in hands of a stranger, having trust and belief on him.
Yes, it’s a fact that they are always the better and fairer sex than we men, but its uncanny that they are not treated as per their capability.
I was even more astonished when I was going through the quotes of satya sai baba, its unjustified that even he is talking, that women should sacrifice their dreams ,their likes and dislikes and many other things after their marriage ,Only one question that kept on taunting me was ,
WHY WE TALK ABOUT SACRIFICES FROM WOMEN SIDE ONLY, AND NOT FROM WE MEN.
I got my answer.., because we men only create such rules and give such quotes ,even our baba is a man . Its extremely my point of view, so no need to create havoc by followers of satya sai baba, with due regards to him .
Its high time now that we all should realize this fact and let their dreams flourish and help them touch a new height of peak.
They have got all the rights to live a life as independent as we men.
I have already taken an initiative towards this, it’s now your turn to do so.
I would like to end this, with a quote:
“A free race cannot be born of slave mothers.”

LIFE OF WOMEN: FULL OF SACRIFICES IT’S TIME NOW WE MEN SHOULD REALISE IT AND PAY DOWRY IN RETURN

LIFE OF WOMEN: FULL OF SACRIFICES
IT’S TIME NOW WE MEN SHOULD REALISE IT AND PAY DOWRY IN RETURN
I was sitting in front of my laptop and chit chatting with a friend of mine, who studies with me in my pgdm program. Starting with some general talks we entered into a mode of serious talks, and in a student’s life serious talk is nothing but about their future plans and career plan.
She is very smart, intelligent girl with a clean soul. She was sharing her future plans, to surprise of mine she was only going to work for one year or so ,I was quite surprised and amazed by listening that, but after knowing the reason I was more kind of shocked, my mind got blank for few seconds .
What a tragic situation it was?
The girl who has outperformed the boys in all fields in her whole life, starting from primary schooling to graduation and even in post graduation.
Is uncertain about her career, just because it would be time for her, when marriage bells would start ringing and she needs to tie knot with someone. She does not know whether her in-laws would allow to fulfill her dreams.
It’s an true affair and unfortunate ,rather disgrace of our society ,that’s stops somebody realizing their dreams ,specially for someone who her whole life was chasing her dreams ,working day in and day out scoring excellent marks and outperforming others at every platform.
How our society can be so ruthless, that they are ruining aspirations of so many young girls, just to fulfill their desire .Suppressing dreams of millions of young women.
A famous quote of William Shakespeare very well fits here
“GLOUCESTER O ruin'd piece of nature! This great world ’’
Yes we men are ruining the greatest piece of nature, that are women, the life of a woman starts with sacrifice only from sacrificing mother’s milk for his brother to her education, upbringing and lately sacrificing their dreams and aspirations. This all things are brutally suppressed during the course of time. They become the victim of dowry death, molestation and other worst form of criminalization.
Its appreciable that some changes has happened in our thought process and some girls are really fortunate that they need not sacrifice this things in their childhood or even in adolescence stage ,but again the mirror maze starts for them when the time comes of doing the ritual of tying knot with somebody who is a stranger for them.
We talk so big about women empowerment, talking about some handful women and boasting about their landmark achievement, not realizing that, our men dominated society never appreciated their efforts but want to be part of their success.
Our politician wants to pass a resolution wherein they talk of giving reservation to women, again the step lacks the motive but instead is politically motivated, to reap benefits out of it.
Women empowerment is not needed for women; rather morale empowerment is necessary for them as well as for all the men as to how to treat them and not restrict their thought process and ideas, by imposing our unauthentic and unworthy systems and beliefs.
The offensive and people of our rotten society , who seeks pleasure in asking for big amount as dowry ,should instead feel ashamed of doing so, Instead they should give dowry to women ,who sacrifices their smallest of happiness ,leaves their family ,unrealized dreams and gives her entire live in hands of stranger, having trust and belief in them.
Yes, it’s a fact that they are always the better and fairer sex then we men ,buts its uncanny that they are not treated as per their capability.
I was even more astonished when I was going through the quotes of satya sai baba ,its unjustified that even he is talking ,that women should sacrifice their dreams ,their likes and dislikes and many other things after their marriage ,Only one question was keep on taunting me ,
WHY ONLY WE TALK ABOUT SACRIFICE FROM WOMEN SIDE ,WHY NOT WE MEN
I got my answer ,because we men only create such rules and give such quotes ,even our baba is a man . Its extremely my point of view, so need to create havoc by followers of satya sai baba ,with due regards to him .
Its high time now that we all should realize, let their dream flourish and touch a new height of peak and lets help them in realizing their dreams.
They have got all the rights to leave as independent life as we men.
I have taken the steps, it’s now your turn to do so.
I would like to end ,with an quote :
“A free race cannot be born of slave mothers.”

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

LEARNINGS FROM :WHO MOVED MY CHEESE?

WHO MOVED MY CHEESE?

MICE (SNIFF: WHO SNIFFS OUT CHANGES EARLY AND SCURY: MOVED QUICKLY TO ADOPT WITH CHANGES)
LITTLE PEOPLE (HAW: ADAPT TO SITAUTION AND HEM: DENY AND RESIST TO CHANGE)

Cheese means different for different people ,it really depends on what we want in life and what are our priorities ,for some cheese means happiness for some money ,it depends on what we look at .
When we come out of our fear and when we pass the stage, we become more fearless and free and when we can see things we want wanted to achieve that we have achieved, makes us more happy and positive and energetic.
Change can lead to something better and not thinking that it would lead to have something bad. Our confidence should never change into arrogance, we get opportunities but once achieved something we should not stop but again get in the process of utilizing the opportunities. It is safer to search outside than being restricted in our comfort zone.
We should not thing what could go wrong but should thing what it could do for betterment, we should be ready to accept and react to changes. It all depends on what we believe.
If we expect the changes we can always be in the situation to react and safeguard our self then waiting for when the changes would come. Noticing small changes early can lead us to react better when big changes happen.
We started to change when we laugh at our own mistake and realize it. Reflected on the mistakes made in past and worked and learnt from It.
Biggest hurdle to change lies within us and not something else and what makes us moving that there is always better things outside then mourning on things that didn’t happen . We should pass our comforts and fear. Change happens and things keep moving, we should enjoy the changes and the result of new change.
We should always keep on inspecting things happening around us rather than waiting for the situation to become grim.
We need to change as we want to change. The story is about change may be for job, recognition, relationship or anything, when we get it we get attached to it and resist to change.
In job we can use it as there is always insecurity hovering around us, and we never know a notice would come out, making us wondering and yelling as why and when it happened.
So we need to be always be prepared and inspecting things in and around us so we would be in better position to react with changes positively. We keep on fearing as what would happen if we react to the situation not thinking that if we won’t react and keep on mourning on things situation would turn more grim.
It’s always required that we should not yell on things already happened to us but we should move forward and react to it .Life gives lot of surprises and that is the only fun in living, as living the same boring life does not do any value addition nor takes out our best skills ,many a times because of the tough situation we tend to react and in our deepest of surprise we find out that many unknown and unused talent and skill is already pertained in us.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

MEMORABLE DAY AT NATIONAL EVENT(VJIM)

It was a day of happiness,pride,fun,excitement,disappointment and lots of energy .It was not only 14th November,i.e. children day but also a national event organized at Vignan jyothi of management,Hyderabad .
My day started with receiving my friends and showing them the way to the college.It was great to see good crowd there ,we registered our self for two events.
With positive mindset and full of enthusiasm we started our event ,that was ESCALATORS where in it was a mix of knowledge and luck .The event was really interesting, we cleared the preliminary round and was there to compete with top 4 teams.
The main game started wherein we need to role dices and answer the question, it was good set of question and very well organized .With our commitment,believe,team work and specially by god's grace we were declared the winner,as we successfully reached the destination.It was great moment for all of us,we all very excited and enthralled for the next event,that was my all time favorite Business quiz.
I and my team mate sandeep M with highest points in preliminary , which was written round was selected to compete with 4 other teams .We moved on to the auditorium where final rounds of quiz was to be held .We took our respected places ,but unfortunately we could not make it to top,as we were to defensive and in order to avoid negative marks we didn't go for the answers we were even knowing.
So it was a great learning that when we gets an opportunity we should grab it with both the hands.
We enjoyed other events where in my other friends participated ,Mad ad and nach le was really full-tush fun and enthralling .
The event ended on a very positive note ,we were extremely happy to get certificates and cash prize for the event we won.
The event was really a very good learning experience and memorable .

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

IS INDIA REALLY GROWING?

It took so long for me to post something new, because i was keenly observing things happening in India, finally a topic clicked in my mind and i thought of sharing it with you all.

We all should feel very proud that we are living in the era wherein our country India is undergoing one of its finest and best times in some centuries .I am saying this because of the growth, we are observing in our economy, because India is going to turn into economic power and a power hub for other countries.The Indian economy has recently been notching up some of the highest growth rates in the world. But India’s economic growth is truly a miracle, simply because its economy has followed a completely new path to development, one that has not been followed by any of the late developing economies. “The Indian growth path is unique. That is really scary because we are not following a proven model.”
The first proof towards it is the fight against recession and global slowdown.We boldly fought the downturn and economic meltdown,we were some of the economies which continued to grow and the growth rate was tremendous.
The retail revolution which is going on in India, the telecom boom,the growth in automobile sector wherein the positive news is that country has become the second largest makers of small cars,over taking Brazil and gap with japan narrowing down.
Indian government is also taking some very good moves like of divestment ,listing of its profitable government companies in stock market of India.
Prime Minister Manmohan Singh recently sent out a strong message on the need for further economic reform, particularly in the financial sector, and welcomed investment through qualified institutional investors in Indian companies. Stating that the country has been able to withstand the economic downturn, he said a gradual phase-out of the stimulus measures would take place next year.

This is one side of the story and it does not end here, THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION IS
Are we really growing? I really don't feel so ,we are growing in terms of overall growth of our economy but speaking factually we are diminishing and creating a sense of insecurity among our self.
Is growth : terrorism ,naxalism , crime rate ,corruption ,suicides by farmers ,Favoritism to some states on verge of ignoring other states by central govt., fighting for political mileage ,suppressing poor people ,rich getting richer and poor getting poorer, diminishing our culture and values, more cases of old people discarded by their well established children.
Are we boasting about our self for this growth, are we happy with this superficial growth, the hypocrite growth or we are ignoring it as earning money and fame has put a shield on our eyes.
It's very shameful that on one side we talk about growth of India and show people outside India that Indians are very hardworking ,honest and committed to their work and most important thing is follows their values, and on other side we kick people out of our state ,just because they are not from our caste, community, language or creed and most importantly they are poor and they can't fight for their rights,their only motto is to feed their family.
We talk so big about our state and our mother tongue forgetting that whatever we are ,is because of being a part of India ,its combined effort of all Indians that we have a country like India and cities like Delhi,mumbai,Bangalore,Hyderabad and so on.
Its nobodies right to throw somebody out of your state just to gain political mileage out of it. The people whom i am pointing towards is very clear ,i am not taking their name because i don't want to give them undue attention for their deeds.
They teach their kids in best schools and colleges of English medium and after all this talk about local language and common people,if it is so they should even send their kids to the local government or municipality school.This disease is a communicable disease which passes from on from one party to other ,just to be in limelight.This kind of situation and our neutral behavior will act as a major hindrance for growth of our country.
Its high time now, we should not get carried away by the superficial growth, but understand how to grow with our values,with love ,with common goal with equality ,with feelings for common and poor people.
That day i would call that India is really growing when the people who provides us food(farmer) does not commit suicide, when we don't fight on names of caste ,creed, religion, language etc ,the day when all the states come together and get their rights so that they can contribute their part to our lovable country ,when no section of our society gets deprived of something.
Its not so easy to achieve but its all in our hands(we the citizens of India)
""WHERE THERE IS WILL THERE IS A WAY""

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Game theory and Prisoner's dilema

Game theory is a mathematically,scientifically proven theory which studies science of strategy.The actions that “players” should take to secure the best outcomes for themselves in a wide array of “games.”game theory have succeeded in describing and prescribing appropriate strategies in several situations of conflict and cooperation.
It can help us to understand why is that a competitor behaves or responds the same way as his opponent does .
Like why coca cola and Pepsi have all similar products?Why is that their pricing for all the products is same?What if one competitor decreases or increases their prices and how it impacts other?
This study which fetched many persons win noble prize because of its help in research.
It is very necessary for all of us to understand this concept as this situation of reactive competitiveness is arising day by day and more and more industry is coming into its effect.
As in the case of prisoners dilemma ,fearing other prisoners would reveal the secret ,the companies are taking some strong move to outcast other players, fearing they would loose the market.
Some such incidents we have recently seen out bursting in telecommunication sector.
Where in due to fear of other player taking such steps they come forward and take this harsh step ,which leads to total disturbance in the sector as a whole.
So with Game theory we can understand the effect and consequences of such steps.